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WHAT WILL IT TAKE FOR YOU TO BE A GOOD LISTENER?

During Easter break, I had a giggle to an image of 2 chocolate bunnies that a friend posted on Facebook. One had a bite chunk off its butt and it yelled at the other bunny, “My butt hurts!!!” The other chocolate bunny had a bite chunk off its ears and replied, “What??”

Often we complain that our partner doesn’t listen to us or doesn’t understand us. Perhaps they talk so much that it is hard for us to find a blank space, or a second to reply with our thoughts. But have you ever noticed that perhaps they don’t talk too much (or in great detail) with other people? Perhaps you are the only one that they feel comfortable to open up to? Isn’t it a privilege to be the special one that your partner can be their true self with?

Perhaps they talk too little, or at least too little of a personal nature. But have you ever considered that in their past, they may have experienced hard things of the heart such as cruelty, mockery and shame? Maybe they experienced bullying at school or abuse at home? If this happens often enough, people will shut down. People who have had these negative experiences long for affection and attention.

Perhaps the best response to the famous question “What do women want?” or “What do men want?” might be “Why don’t you ask and then listen?”

What can we do differently to change our communication pattern and make it more effective?

If you want to learn more about expressing yourself lovingly, you try our Enhance Your Intimacy Package. Which features a combination of two Couples Massage lessons, two mini Relationship Coaching sessions and the Love Box containing a few things that will support you to create a romantic ambience. Get one Complimentary Infra Red Sauna session and Body Scrub at our HealthSpace Bondi Junction location (valued at $95) if you book before 15th May 2016.

Please call 1300780457 to make your booking.  To view our service menu, click on  http://www.ultimatecareforyou.com.au/services/

Written by Ingrid Galloway

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